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The Cat You See Isn’t the Cat They Truly Are
Shelters can be busy and stressful places for our feline friends, so cats in shelters often appear much shyer than they truly are. Once safely settled at home, that scaredy cat from the shelter may reveal itself to be an affectionate and playful friend for life. Very often, a cat’s true personality only appears once the animal feels comfortable in their new home, and shelters wish more people knew that.
Adult Cats Are Often the Easiest Companions
Kittens are adorable and often quickly find a new home while older cats stay behind. Shelter workers know, however, that adult cats are often easier to welcome into your home. These felines are already past their destructive kitten phase and are usually much calmer. Adult cats’ temperament is also more predictable, which can result in a better fit for you and your family.
Adjustment Takes Time
Cats love routine and predictability, so when they move into a new home, they need a little time to adjust. Don’t panic if your new feline friend hides for a while or even skips a meal at first. Your cat is just trying to understand what’s going on.
The “rule of threes” is an easy way to remember how much time most cats take to get used to their new home. The rule says to expect:
- 3 days to decompress
- 3 weeks to settle
- 3 months to fully feel at home
So, if you’re adopting, be sure to give your new best friend all the time they need to adjust.
Returning a Cat Is Often Very Preventable
Some cats are returned to the shelter only days or weeks after they were adopted, often because the poor animal did not match their new family’s expectations right away. With some patience, most problems can easily be overcome, including:
- Hiding away
- Litter box problems
- Introduction struggles with other pets
Shelters would much rather help troubleshoot than see a cat come back confused and stressed, so don’t hesitate to reach out to them when you feel overwhelmed. Also explore our extensive list of articles on cat behavior so you and your feline friend can be off to a great start!
Cats Don’t End Up in Shelters Because They’re “Bad”
Most shelter cats are in there because of human circumstances, not their own behavior. Some of the most common reasons cats end up in shelters include:
- Their owner being ill or passing away
- Their family moving house
- Family members with allergies
- Financial hardship
- Lifestyle changes
Many super sweet cats suddenly lose their home through no fault of their own. Shelter cats are often just as loving as pedigree cats, so be sure to visit your local shelter when looking for a new feline friend.
Caring for a Cat isn’t Free
Unfortunately, people sometimes only see the fun part of owning a cat and not the responsibility that comes with it. While kittens are often given away for free, caring for one isn’t. Cats need a microchip, spaying or neutering, annual vet visits, deworming and flea treatment, food, litter, and more. Thinking carefully before getting a cat can help prevent your feline friend from ending up in a shelter.
