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The rule of three
When you bring a new cat home, there’s a simple rule that can help you understand what to expect: the rule of three. It breaks the adjustment period into three stages: the first 3 days, the first 3 weeks, and the first 3 months. During each stage, your cat’s confidence will grow, allowing your feline friend to gradually settle into their new home.
1. The first 3 days
The first days in their new home can be very overwhelming for your new feline friend. There are new sounds, smells, objects and people, all to take in at once. To help your friend adjust more easily, keep them in a single room for the first three days so they can slowly get used to their new surroundings.
The dedicated cat room should have everything your cat needs, including food, water, a litter box, a scratching post or pad, toys, and a cozy bed. Don’t be surprised if your cat hides a lot during the first few days, that’s completely normal. Speak to them gently, give them space, and let them come to you when they’re ready. With a little patience, you’ll soon start building a bond with your new feline friend.
2. The first 3 weeks
As your cat begins to feel more at home, they’ll naturally start exploring the rest of the house. Let them do it on their own terms and never force them out of their safe space. You’ll also start to see your cat’s unique personality shine through! Be sure to reward good behavior with treats and attention and try to calmly ignore unwanted behavior when possible. Setting a consistent routine for things like mealtimes, play sessions, and bedtime will help your cat feel secure and make it easier for them to settle in.
3. The first 3 months
After 3 months, most cats will feel completely at home. They‘ll have settled into their daily routine, will no longer hide away, and might even have made friends with other household pets. However, some felines – especially those with a history of abuse or neglect – may need more time. Try to be patient, giving them the space and support they need to come out of their shell. When they finally do, the bond you build is incredibly rewarding.
If it ever feels like a cat isn’t the right match for your lifestyle or household, don’t hesitate to reach out to your local shelter. They can offer guidance and help you make the best decision for both you and your feline friend.
